Posts Tagged ‘pen pals’

An Unusal Way To Find Royalty

Wednesday, November 11th, 2009

The lengths some people will go to to contact an old friend.

The lengths some people will go to to contact an old friend.

Most of us are trawling the usual channels to find our old friends. Some people, however, come up with some very inventive methods. I guess it depends who you are searching for.

An old friend of Camilla Parker Bowles, now wife of Prince Charles made sure that she reconnected with her old mate. The now Duchess of Cornwall was faced with this blast from her teenage past as she did a walkaround in Victoria, British Columbia on her present tour of Canadia.

The enterprising former friend of the Duchess held a sign that said ” Camillia, Lottie here. Remember Mon Fertile 1963-64.” The sign referred to a time in Camilla’s past when she attended a Swiss finishing school with the lady holding the sign, Ms Charlotte Ericson.

Ms Ericson remembers those school days well and recalls that

“We were just typical crazy teenage girls, into the Beatles, hair, make-up and clothes.We would stay up late talking about the boys we fancied and eating Swiss chocolate and giggling.There were a lot of girls there and she would spend most of her time with the British girls, but we got to know each other.”

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Camillia grew up in Sussex and was educated in an exclusive British school for the early years of her life before heading off to this particular Swiss finishing school and then another one in France. The finishing school placed a lot of emphasise on learning sewing, typing and etiquette according to Ms Ericson who is quite sure that these skills have held Camilla in good stead for her present role as the Duchess.

Ms Ericson was thrilled to catch up with her old friends and stated that she would be getting on the phone to other former school friends of Camilla’s to tell them she has spoken to her.

Camilla held up her walkabout to stand and chat with her old friend, proving that no matter how famous you may be we are all partial to a bit of nostalgia from time to time.

This was an extraordinary length for Ms Lottie Ericson to go to to find an old friend but she certainly seemed to think it was worth it. Most of us will not have to do anything nearly as public to make contact with whoever we are searching for. Which is probably just as well as I know I, for one would not have the stomach for doing something like that.

But just because our lost friends are less famous does not mean our searches are any less important. I am loving reading all the comments that people are leaving and am so keen to hear more about how all your searches are progressing.

Can’t Smile Without You

Monday, November 9th, 2009

Recently I posted a blog titled “A Personal Touch” which generated some interesting responses. It got me thinking about a pen pal that I’ve had since age 12. His name is Chris and he lives a couple of states away from me. As I think back over the years of corresponding with Chris, it brings a huge smile to my face. Let me tell you about it…

Initially, Chris would write a letter and I would send a letter back within a couple of days. The first few letters were signed “your pen pal” and at some point “your friend”. We would draw goofy things next to our names.

For my 13th birthday, Chris knew I was having a backyard cookout with my girlfriends. They all knew about Chris and that I had a crush on him. He had sent me his most recent school picture and I would show it to everyone and anyone. I even showed it to the mail man! Yep, I have a thing for Chris. Just as we were beginning to roast hotdogs, the mail man came walking up the driveway. He smiled as he handed me a package and said, “I believe Chris sent you something.” Of course I rambled on about how it was my birthday, and how embarrassing, okay how exciting, to receive a present in front of my girlfriends!!! After the mail man was out of sight, I ripped open the package and began to cry. Chris REMEMBERED! He remembered my favorite song that I dedicated to him…Barry Manilow’s “I Can’t Smile Without You”. Later that night after my friends were gone, I played the song over and over and over…thinking about Chris.

As we grew a little older, our letters ended with “take care” and then, gasp!, “love”. We wrote pages and pages to each other. When we were both seniors in high school Chris came to visit me! As soon as he stepped out of the car, I recognized him. I remember we went for a long walk, holding hands the entire time. We also knew that we made great pen pals, but there wouldn’t be anything more between us. Chris was called to be a priest. We continued to stay in touch and Chris came to visit me at college. A few years later, he called and said that he would be on “Wheel of Fortune” and be sure to watch him. (I did watch, and he said hi to me–wow!) Since then, we mainly send cards to each other. However, when one of us is going through a difficult time, we grab a pen and write a letter. Chris was there during the loss of my sister and my parents and when my heart was broken by a guy. I’ve been there for Chris when he decided to leave the ministry and during failed relationships.

My life is richer because of Chris. While some girls wrote in journals, I wrote to Chris. We shared a lot of life stuff together. It’s been quite awhile since my last letter to him, and think I’ll write him one tonight.

How about contacting someone who is special to you? Send a card or a letter. If you’re not even sure where the person lives, that’s what we’re here for. If you’re still thinking about someone, utilize this site and get reunited.

Listen to your heart…