Christmas time. Some people look forward to this time of year with great anticipation. They plan in advance when to go shopping, when to write Christmas cards and when they’ll invite guests over. For some, Christmas is a stressful time…the boss wants you to work overtime, you haven’t even thought about shopping yet, money is tight and you’re thinking about skipping the Christmas tree this year.
If you’re feeling more on the stressful side, here are some thoughts and ideas to consider…
• minimal decorating is fine (i.e. wreath on front door, a Christmas tree, candles on the mantle)
• consider Christmas ecards in place of snail mail cards
• purchase gift cards to have on hand for those unexpected times you need a gift
• give “coupons” as a gift (i.e. movie night, free babysitting)
• keep Christmas dinner simple
• give a family gift to friends rather than individual gifts (i.e. a couple of DVDs, popcorn, soda)
• enjoy your time with family and friends–don’t fret over cleaning your house
• attend a Christmas Eve service
• make a shopping list and refrain from impulse buying
A few years ago I really had to do some self-assessing regarding Christmas. I was sending about 200 Christmas cards, bought gifts for just about everyone I knew, planned way too many get-togethers and found myself resenting Christmas. When I reflected on the true meaning of Christmas, my priorities shifted. I drastically reduced my Christmas card list, I exchange gifts with mainly family, and I don’t host get-togethers. (I host parties/cookouts throughout the year.) What a difference it has made!!!
Last year our church decided to hold a Christmas Day Community Dinner. It was one of my best Christmases ever! People were appreciative of the meal, Christmas caroling and the gifts. I played games with some of the kids who just needed to know that someone cared about them. We’re doing a dinner again this year and I expect it will be the highlight of my day.
May this week before Christmas be a positive one for you. May you truly enjoy the season.
Listen to your heart…
Tags: Christmas, family, friends, relationships
I like the idea of giving a family gift rather than individual gifts. Am trying to enjoy time w/ family and friends and not be so focused on the gifts.
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